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I see a lot of Western guys who approach Japanese girls and forget to leave their baggage behind. No, not their luggage – their “baggage” – the emotional hang-ups and feelings of inadequacy that cause them to struggle to meet Japanese women.

 

It is time to get rid of some of the baggage that is stopping you from picking up girls and maybe having a great relationship. Get with the program and clean your mental house.

 

Here are a few issues that Western men often have that prevent them from scoring with the ladies.

 

 

Okay, so you have the mechanics down, but if you are not confident with how you perform sexually, you will consistently perform badly. Sadly you brought your sub-par performance to the table. Admittedly many Japanese girls are somewhat used to poor sexual performance from their male counterparts but don’t be like those guys. The best way to get some sexual confidence is to practice, practice, practice. If you have a girl now then practice your sexual techniques until you can make her purr.

 

If you don’t have a girl to practice on, find one! Take your time and find out what makes her sexually aroused. Practice different things like a sensual massage or taking your time with foreplay. If you can learn how to rock one girl’s sexual world, then you will gain confidence and this will improve your sex life.

 

The importance of taking your time cannot be understated. Many Japanese men don’t take the time to sexually satisfy their women. It’s shocking to hear what Japanese men don’t do. Focus on satisfying and teaching your Japanese girl that sex should be as satisfying for her as it is for you.

 

 

If you do not have confidence in yourself, how do you really expect to have confidence with women and sex? The only way to gain self-esteem is to succeed at something. It could be your job, finding a job, or finding a better job. Success could also come from finding a new hobby, learning a new skill, or challenging yourself to do something different. Find something every day that will help increase your self-esteem.

 

 

If you have had a few bad relationships and bad experiences with women you may be a little scared to enter into another relationship with a woman. Get over it! Move forward, what happened in the past is in the past. If you show women that you are angry with women in general or afraid of women, they will pick up on this right away and you have struck out before you even get into the ball park.

 

 

Society and culture do a lot to shape who we are as people. This goes for both men and women. But no matter what culture or society the best way to find true love is through sex, plain and simple. Some Japanese women will argue with you and say this isn’t true. That’s because a lot of Japanese women look at sex as a task within a relationship, initiated by men, for men’s pleasure. This is a major cultural difference between Japan and the West. While American women expect to get pleasure from sex, and are disappointed if they don’t, Japanese women accept that they probably will not be pleasured by sex. Japanese women rarely initiate sex – it’s the man’s job..

 

This attitude toward sex is very limiting – for both the woman and for the man. The fact is that the act of sex is the time when a man and a woman are the closest and most intimate. If you are one of those men who selfishly wants sex only to pleasure himself, and you do not take the time to find out what makes a woman want sex and how to satisfy her sexual desires, then you will never have the deepest of meaningful relationships.

 

Learn how to satisfy a Japanese woman sexually. This is the part of a relationship that many Japanese men ignore. If you can bring pleasure to your Japanese woman, she will happily stay by your side. And you can both leave that bit of “baggage” behind.