The Japanese Myth (part 2)
Myth #3: All Japanese women are beautiful
Almond-colored skin. Very exotic.
Long, flowing, straight black hair. Very alluring.
Thin tiny body. Very sensual.
Quiet polite demeanor. Very mysterious.
Not to mention that she knows how to dress.
Now put that fashion magazine down and take a look around. Just like women everywhere else in the world, Japanese women come in all shapes, sizes, and fashion statements.
Some of the women Western men choose constantly surprise me. If these women were from their native country, these same men would probably have never given them the time of day.
Don’t get me wrong; there are very attractive women almost everywhere in Japan.
And that’s the point. It isn’t that the attractive women were Japanese. It was that they were attractive – despite being Japanese.
Beautiful = Beautiful no matter what nationality.
Myth #4: Japanese women are happy to serve
Ah – Your very own Japanese sex slave. She ENJOYS dressing in her kimono, massaging your feet, cooking you dinner, and giving you a bath.
And if you believe she enjoys all of that, I have a bridge I can sell you, maybe two bridges!
Japanese men (and some Westerners as well) are to blame for keeping this myth alive. It’s the attitude that it is OK to sit around the house and do nothing while she cleans, cooks, and performs other “required” duties.
This, of course, does wonders in the bedroom, where sex becomes an obligation and a chore for her, something she would rather be done with so she can go watch her TV shows, rather than a wonderful activity for both of you to look forward to and enjoy.
Myth #5: Getting a date with a Japanese woman is difficult
The truth is getting a date with any woman from any culture is easy. You just have to understand what is important for those women in that culture.
Luckily, the Japanese culture has made being a Westerner cool. You are a walking conversation starter and a curiosity. This curiosity factor gives you a temporary opening to what could lead to a date. I say temporary because you still have to pique her interest beyond the “Western Cool” factor. Being rude translates as rude in any culture and language.
Teach yourself a simple trick or two. Not only will it make you stand out from all of the other Westerners, it can be used after the “Where are you from?” questions have been exhausted.
My trick was to make an origami heart (I would steer the conversation by asking if they could do origami – mentioned I could – they asked what I could make – and I would make the heart – I’m nothing if not a romantic).
Hopefully you no longer believe in the typical myths of Japanese women. Understanding the truth will help you avoid the pitfalls most Westerners fall into when dating and will improve your chances of finding quality Japanese women.
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