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Dating a Japanese Woman is Easy!

Dating ANY woman, from ANY culture, is EASY! A man only needs to understand how women think and he will ALWAYS have a woman in his life. In some ways Japanese women are perhaps more easy to predict. They are not difficult at all. A man only needs the "かわいいFACTOR" or the "K-Factor".

a) Speaking Japanese is not-so-important.

b) Sadly, sexual satisfaction is not-so-important.

Cutting Your Losses: Dating Japanese Women and Sex


The average foreign man is so enamored with the so-called beauty and polite manner of Japanese women that they fall into the trap of sexlessness before they know it.

Japan is LAST on the list of sexual frequency! There is a reason for that. The reason for which is a topic for another article.

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The Jealousy of Great Sex

Why is it that if a woman obviously enjoys smoking, drinking or eating , it's not really that big of a deal, but if she enjoys sex everybody gasps with such a disgusting glare? How dare she enjoy sex enough to show it! Cigarette smoking can cause cancer, drinking can lead to alcoholism, and overeating to obesity and heart disease. What does too much sex lead to?

The Secret to a good Sex life: Focus on her needs.

I'm always puzzled when Japanese men complain that they don't have enough sex. And the Japanese women complain that they really don't enjoy sex, but they have sex. For the women, having sex is similar to going to work. People work because they need money, women have sex to have a man, boyfriend or husband. Many women don't like sex, just like many women do not like their jobs, but they want money, so they work. Doing does not mean liking. Why is this so difficult for Japanese men to understand?

A simple formula for men to follow for a better love life

    Be attentive to a woman outside of bed (romance)
+ Be attentive to a woman in bed(her wants, her pleasures, ask her, good technique)
- A your tendency for selfishness
———————————————–
   A more pleasurable love (sex) life for both of you!

Simple formula, but it takes a lot of practice, and practice is FUN!!!

My definition of romance is doing the little things like giving flowers, love notes or cards, saying, "I love you", asking, How was your day?" and giving her a massage without thinking about having sex afterward! Also, doing unexpectedly thoughtful things.

your note: means generally speaking a man doesn't know everything(sometimes nothing! ha hah ha) about a woman's body and sexual feelings. He should ask in a caring way about her wants. 

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Men Need to Learn They Can’t Just Do It!

Most men think by virtue of the fact that they have a penis, they can please a woman. HOW STUPID!!! Even the simple act of brushing our teeth is something that's taught. Generally speaking, a woman's (physical) pleasure isn't based on what a man's is. Most men need to be open to the fact that they need to learn how to please a woman. This requires a level of trust so the woman is able to tell the man what she wants.

Just Because He’s Nice…

Believe it or not, you may not be the stud you think you are. The woman you're sleeping next to may be with you just because you're a good (nice) guy. She deals with the sex as a consideration for everything else. Life can still be good, and it's likely she loves you anyway, but things could be better. Remember, in all relationships there are aspects of our partner that we deal with because that's the way they are. And for women, the need to be with someone allows them to put up with sex. Maybe they don't expect or ask us to change, but it would be nice…

Just What Do (Some) Japanese Men Think of Women?

The cover of a very popular Japanese women's magazine (an an, dated 2006.5.31, No. 1513) has a nude woman lying down with one of her legs in the air and a pink Valentine heart where her vagina is. Strangely, this monthly magazine isn't considered pornographic, and it features a wide range of life-style articles.

What Men ALWAYS Need to be Reminded of about Women…

Men must realize that generally speaking, women don't want sex for the same reason men do. If a woman likes you, then she may want sex. If a woman loves you, her own sexual satisfaction, while important, is less likely to be talked about.

Well…Who Needs Who???

Women don't need men from a purely sexual point of view, but men do need women. Don't believe me? Look at the sex industry and who they cater to – men. And NO! the men they cater to aren't all perverts and freaks; they may be someone you know well.