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A simple formula for men to follow for a better love life
Be attentive to a woman outside of bed (romance)
+ Be attentive to a woman in bed(her wants, her pleasures, ask her, good technique)
- A your tendency for selfishness
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A more pleasurable love (sex) life for both of you!
Simple formula, but it takes a lot of practice, and practice is FUN!!!
My definition of romance is doing the little things like giving flowers, love notes or cards, saying, "I love you", asking, How was your day?" and giving her a massage without thinking about having sex afterward! Also, doing unexpectedly thoughtful things.
your note: means generally speaking a man doesn't know everything(sometimes nothing! ha hah ha) about a woman's body and sexual feelings. He should ask in a caring way about her wants.
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Are you wasting time? Reading books written in English about Relationships
It's interesting to observe Japanese women reading English books, by American authors, on how to create good male-female relationships. Oftentimes these women have never had a foreign lover. This means that most of the advice given is a waste of time to read and is irrelevant to the Japanese culture. Relationships and dating among Japanese is significantly different from Americans. And in fact most Japanese women run from exploring romantic relationships with Americans. Only the Japanese bookstore profits when the books are purchased, the reader gets only a little usable knowledge.
Women should realize that American culture is emotionally and sexually different from Japanese culture. American women expect sex and pleasure more often than Japanese women. For American women sex is not a chore on the list of things to do along with the housework.
Men Need to Learn They Can’t Just Do It!
Most men think by virtue of the fact that they have a penis, they can please a woman. HOW STUPID!!! Even the simple act of brushing our teeth is something that's taught. Generally speaking, a woman's (physical) pleasure isn't based on what a man's is. Most men need to be open to the fact that they need to learn how to please a woman. This requires a level of trust so the woman is able to tell the man what she wants.
Romance Is Everyday Sex Isn’t
What do I mean, "romance is everyday sex isn't"? Simple. Ever notice how men are more romantic when they want to have sex? The flowers, compliments, being helpful, paying more attention to their lovers and then, "let's do it?" Come on, guys; be honest.
Just What Do (Some) Japanese Men Think of Women?
The cover of a very popular Japanese women's magazine (an an, dated 2006.5.31, No. 1513) has a nude woman lying down with one of her legs in the air and a pink Valentine heart where her vagina is. Strangely, this monthly magazine isn't considered pornographic, and it features a wide range of life-style articles.
What Men ALWAYS Need to be Reminded of about Women…
Men must realize that generally speaking, women don't want sex for the same reason men do. If a woman likes you, then she may want sex. If a woman loves you, her own sexual satisfaction, while important, is less likely to be talked about.
Food for a Good Relationship: Bread and Butter
How about a diet of bread and butter? A little fattening, but it sounds yummy, doesn't it? Actually, cinnamon toast is my favorite, with a nice layer of butter across the top. MMmmmmmm. Can't you just see the butter melting down through all those little cracks in the toast? Believe it or not, a good relationship is like bread and butter without the fat. The bread and butter are the two people in a relationship.
Ever notice that when you slice the bread after the butter has melted into it you really can't see where they're separate? The bread and butter have become one. It's impossible to spread the butter everywhere on the bread; in a relationship those are the imperfections, the areas where the butter is missing. Think of the butter as understanding and the bread as some aspect of the relationship.
Well…Who Needs Who???
Women don't need men from a purely sexual point of view, but men do need women. Don't believe me? Look at the sex industry and who they cater to – men. And NO! the men they cater to aren't all perverts and freaks; they may be someone you know well.
Some men are just L A Z Y!!!
A thought about sex and swinger personals: while there may be a small percentage of women who have an interest in sex similar to a man's, I suspect that it's largely the exception rather than the rule. The ratio of men to women who use such a forum to meet is very high. I'm sure that some of the women are professionals, as some of the communication seems scripted. Even in such media, most real women are looking for a monogamous relationship.
