Tag Archives: sexual frequency
American Women
Contrary to what foreign men would have you believe most Japanese girls know very little about sexual expression. Allow me to be more pointed – almost nothing. A very typical position for Japanese woman is liken to a block of semi-soft tofu.
Technology and Intimacy in Japanese Relationships
I was with a Japanese friend at a coffee shop one afternoon, and we overheard two Japanese women talking at the next table. One of them sounded really angry. I couldn’t quite understand everything she was saying, so I asked the girl I was with to translate. It turns out that the woman had recently broken up with her boyfriend because he spent more time with his cell phone than with her – even while they were on dates! His sex life was satisfied by porn – like many Japanese men, this woman’s ex-boyfriend was getting his sexual fulfillment almost exclusively from porn through manga, the Web and adult videos.
Dating a Japanese Woman is Easy!
Dating ANY woman, from ANY culture, is EASY! A man only needs to understand how women think and he will ALWAYS have a woman in his life. In some ways Japanese women are perhaps more easy to predict. They are not difficult at all. A man only needs the "かわいいFACTOR" or the "K-Factor".
a) Speaking Japanese is not-so-important.
b) Sadly, sexual satisfaction is not-so-important.
Cutting Your Losses: Dating Japanese Women and Sex
The average foreign man is so enamored with the so-called beauty and polite manner of Japanese women that they fall into the trap of sexlessness before they know it.
Japan is LAST on the list of sexual frequency! There is a reason for that. The reason for which is a topic for another article.
In the meantime take action!
End Sexlessness with a Japanese woman
Japanese women are well known for gradually reducing the sex they have with their partners or husbands. Some couples only have sex once or twice a month! Foreign men often cry and moan about the lack of sex with the Japanese women in their lives.
Real men say, “NO!” to no-sex. They do not accept the excuses of, “I’m tired” or “I’m too busy”.
This strategy works when the following elements exist: the guy knows he is a prize worth having and the Japanese woman knows that she can be replaced easily with an equal or better ‘quality’ woman.
Just say, "NO!" to sexlessness. If the man is a prize, SUDDENLY, the Japanese girl will have time and energy. Mine did!
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Why Do Foreign Men Need So Many Women?
Japanese women who have never dated a foreign man seem shocked when they consider how many girlfriends (lovers) a foreign man has at one time. Of course, Japanese women who've dated three or more foreign men feel that three or more girlfriends at one time is many. In either case, Japanese women appear to be more accepting of that possibility than Western women. The question almost all of them ask is, "Why so many?"
Sex Isn’t a Reward for Good Behavior!
A large number of men think, "If I do this for her, she should give me (or want to have) sex!" This is an incredibly immature way to think. Sex isn't a gift or a reward for good deeds or behavior. The feeling of sexual pleasure should be mutually satisfying, and statistically in many cases it's not – for her. It's almost laughable to hear foreign men talk about the sexual times they had with their Japanese spouse before marriage, and how now sex seldom occurs. These men are shocked and angry. Haven't they realized that though many Japanese women appear sexy and attractive that they aren't nearly as sexual as Western women? The statistics are everywhere; Japanese people don't have sex as frequently as other cultures. So what happened?
Get to know her: Ask the right questions
Everyone loves a good listener and nearly everyone knows this, so why is it that men are often poor listeners in relationships? Being a good listener seems to be less of a problem in the workplace than in the home. Listening to others is required at work to get tasks done correctly, and if something is unknown or unclear, questions are asked. That's why communication in work relationships is often better than it is in personal relationships.
The Secret to a good Sex life: Focus on her needs.
I'm always puzzled when Japanese men complain that they don't have enough sex. And the Japanese women complain that they really don't enjoy sex, but they have sex. For the women, having sex is similar to going to work. People work because they need money, women have sex to have a man, boyfriend or husband. Many women don't like sex, just like many women do not like their jobs, but they want money, so they work. Doing does not mean liking. Why is this so difficult for Japanese men to understand?
The Awakening of the Japanese Woman
Writers, filmmakers, and the general public have, for some time, been intrigued with the possibility of A.I. (Artificial Intelligence); so much so that serious concerns have been explored and dramatized regarding the theoretical and imagined problems that could be encountered with its reality. The concern most commonly expressed about the development of A.I. is whether there could be a potential for self-awareness, and then an ensuing struggle for recognition. But, what should be of much greater concern to the Japanese public is the awakening of Japanese women's intelligence, and their potential to become a force for change. This very awakening may well be unfolding before the Japanese public, albeit very slowly, in the guise of an emerging, modern Japanese woman.
