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Dating a Japanese Woman is Easy!
Dating ANY woman, from ANY culture, is EASY! A man only needs to understand how women think and he will ALWAYS have a woman in his life. In some ways Japanese women are perhaps more easy to predict. They are not difficult at all. A man only needs the "かわいいFACTOR" or the "K-Factor".
a) Speaking Japanese is not-so-important.
b) Sadly, sexual satisfaction is not-so-important.
Cutting Your Losses: Dating Japanese Women and Sex
The average foreign man is so enamored with the so-called beauty and polite manner of Japanese women that they fall into the trap of sexlessness before they know it.
Japan is LAST on the list of sexual frequency! There is a reason for that. The reason for which is a topic for another article.
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What do Japanese women REALLY think?
Stupid Foreign Men Led By Sex!
Judging by the physical appearance and personality of many foreign men, most of those who marry Japanese women have had few sexual experiences in their native country. Once a foreign man comes to Japan, he "gets lucky" with a Japanese girl, gets "pussy whipped," gets married, and then gripes about the lack of sexual intimacy after he realizes she isn't as "interested in sex." One might wonder to what degree the Japanese woman was really intimate or interested in sex at all.
Get to know her: Ask the right questions
Everyone loves a good listener and nearly everyone knows this, so why is it that men are often poor listeners in relationships? Being a good listener seems to be less of a problem in the workplace than in the home. Listening to others is required at work to get tasks done correctly, and if something is unknown or unclear, questions are asked. That's why communication in work relationships is often better than it is in personal relationships.
Small breasted women should love themselves because..
I love you. Please don't envy women with big breasts. Don't say. "My breasts are so small And don't waste money on cosmetic surgery. The reality is that women with big breasts don't look as stylish in their clothes as women with small breasts. Also consider that everyone gets old, and as women with big breasts get old, their big breasts sag. Big breasts aren't so attractive when an older woman is naked. Big breasts as a symbol of beauty is largely promoted in Western culture, don't buy it. Cosmetic surgeons make a fortune from insecure women and men that make them feel that way. Remember, the man that loves you with big breasts now, will not love the big breasts as they begin to sag as you get older. It has been my experience that women with small breasts are more sexual and sensitive, while women with bigger breasts are less so. Bigger isn't always better!
The Secret to a good Sex life: Focus on her needs.
I'm always puzzled when Japanese men complain that they don't have enough sex. And the Japanese women complain that they really don't enjoy sex, but they have sex. For the women, having sex is similar to going to work. People work because they need money, women have sex to have a man, boyfriend or husband. Many women don't like sex, just like many women do not like their jobs, but they want money, so they work. Doing does not mean liking. Why is this so difficult for Japanese men to understand?
A simple formula for men to follow for a better love life
Be attentive to a woman outside of bed (romance)
+ Be attentive to a woman in bed(her wants, her pleasures, ask her, good technique)
- A your tendency for selfishness
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A more pleasurable love (sex) life for both of you!
Simple formula, but it takes a lot of practice, and practice is FUN!!!
My definition of romance is doing the little things like giving flowers, love notes or cards, saying, "I love you", asking, How was your day?" and giving her a massage without thinking about having sex afterward! Also, doing unexpectedly thoughtful things.
your note: means generally speaking a man doesn't know everything(sometimes nothing! ha hah ha) about a woman's body and sexual feelings. He should ask in a caring way about her wants.
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Are you wasting time? Reading books written in English about Relationships
It's interesting to observe Japanese women reading English books, by American authors, on how to create good male-female relationships. Oftentimes these women have never had a foreign lover. This means that most of the advice given is a waste of time to read and is irrelevant to the Japanese culture. Relationships and dating among Japanese is significantly different from Americans. And in fact most Japanese women run from exploring romantic relationships with Americans. Only the Japanese bookstore profits when the books are purchased, the reader gets only a little usable knowledge.
Women should realize that American culture is emotionally and sexually different from Japanese culture. American women expect sex and pleasure more often than Japanese women. For American women sex is not a chore on the list of things to do along with the housework.
Men Need to Learn They Can’t Just Do It!
Most men think by virtue of the fact that they have a penis, they can please a woman. HOW STUPID!!! Even the simple act of brushing our teeth is something that's taught. Generally speaking, a woman's (physical) pleasure isn't based on what a man's is. Most men need to be open to the fact that they need to learn how to please a woman. This requires a level of trust so the woman is able to tell the man what she wants.
