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A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Horseback Riding Trainer

 
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action. I have chosen seven of my relationships to dissect in hopes that you will gain from my successes and learn from my failures. This article is part 7 of 7.
 
Relationship length: 11 years
Japanese spoken: English only
Length of time in Japan before First Date: About 5 years
 

A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Eikaiwa Manager

 
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action. I have chosen seven of my relationships to dissect in hopes that you will gain from my successes and learn from my failures. This article is part 6 of 7.
 
Relationship length: 2 months
Japanese spoken: English only
Length of time in Japan before First Date: About 4 1/2 years

A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Bowling Alley Girl

by Martin Shawne

 

When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action. I have chosen seven of my relationships to dissect in hopes that you will gain from my successes and learn from my failures. This article is part 4 of 7.

A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Bank Teller

by Martin Shawne


When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action. I have chosen seven of my relationships to dissect in hopes that you will gain from my successes and learn from my failures. This article is part 3 of 7.

A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Med Student

by Martin Shawne

 

When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action. I have chosen seven of my relationships to dissect in hopes that you will gain from my successes and learn from my failures. This article is part 2 of 7.

Where To Go On A First Date (part 2)

by Martin Shawne

 

This is Part 2 on ideas of where to go for a first date.

 

Dinner – Tiny Restaurants – Hidden Away: You can find these all over.  Little “family owned” operations that usually cater to locals and have “regulars”.  As first dates go, these are generally a hit, especially if you are a regular or semi-regular.

Imagine you walking in with your date and the owner says “Hey Tony! How ya doin!? You are automatically elevated to VIP status.

 

First Date Rating: If you are a regular or know the staff and the atmosphere is appropriate, these are first date winners.

Where To Go On A First Date (part 1)

by Martin Shawne

 

Congratulations. You got her to say yes for a date. Now what…

 

There are many activities you can do and, depending on the circumstances that you got her to say yes, the choices may be obvious. One of my first dates was to a Sushi restaurant after she asked me if I liked sushi.

 

Other times the choice may not be so cut and dry and you have to rely on the traditional first date places. I have made a list of some of the first date places I took Japanese women on and give my feedback on the enjoyment, impact, and overall outcome of the date (i.e. did it lead to a second).

The Sexual Truth About Japanese Women

1. Read

2. Weep

3. Get Educated

4. Don't be a Victim

Sometimes men need to see it in the RAW

Sexual Wellbeing Survey

Durex.com Frequency of SEX

Is there sex after marriage to a Japanese woman?

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There’s an old joke which I’ve repurposed here:

 

Q: How do you get a Japanese woman to stop wanting to have sex with you?

 

A: Marry her!

If you have a child and live in Japan consider your sex-life nearly finished.

 

There is no doubt you have heard it before: Marry a Japanese woman and your sex life goes away. This tale of woe can be heard among many of the foreign (and Japanese) men who are married to Japanese women. A sexless marriage is a sad situation to be in – often leading to frustration, resentment, extramarital affairs or even divorce.

Do Japanese women have a “Daddy fetish?”

A few months ago, a friend was talking to me about the Japanese women he had dated and/or become friends with and something became clear to me: every one of the Japanese women he had known, regardless of their age or where they were in their lives, dated guys that were in some way or another like their fathers.