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To Japanese Men: Take the Good, Leave the Bad and the Ugly
The email below is from a Japanese woman, continuing education student, at a university in Tokyo. The question was, "Why is Japan a paradise for American men?"
“Don’t go to bed angry”
I have a philosophy I use in my relationships, "Don't go to bed angry" I explained this philosophy to my girlfriend after we saw a Japanese couple seated next to us at a restaurant where the woman got up and left, apparently angry. We don't know what happened, however, my girlfriend said, "Japanese men don't say, 'I'm sorry'".
Japanese men Notice the Japanese girls Foreigners Date
I have a friend who is the Japanese president of a U.K. owned men's brand. We've known each other for about six years. One day as we were having a discussion about women's changing perception of brand in Japan, he suddenly asked, "Can I ask you something? Totally on a different topic?" "Sure" I said, "What's up?" He went on to say, "Our CFO comes to Tokyo several times a year and goes to the gaijin hostess bars in Roppongi. He was here about two weeks ago and one thing I've always noticed, no matter where in the world, the Japanese women that foreign men date aren't so attractive. Most Japanese men wouldn't date them at all!"
The Romance of Snow
It was snowing!! So romantic to see Tokyo covered in clean, white, fluffy snow! On the train was a young Japanese couple, they were standing, chatting and looking at each like everything was great. The girl wore a pink and red sweater and had a big white smile. At the next stop, two men left their seats on the train and the girl sat down. She gently tapped the seat next to her and looked at her boyfriend for him to sit next to her. The girl had big happy eyes of love. The Japanese boy just looked coldly at her and did not move to sit next to her, he remained standing. The young girl looked down, her eyes closed, her smiled disappeared, her head resting against the back of the train seat. She looked like a sad, hurt, little puppy… At the next stop, she looked up, smiled and tapped the seat again, the boy just looked at her and said nothing. Maybe they had argued, maybe he was angry, but she wanted to be next to him. It was easy to see – they were together. Why do Japanese men miss this chance to show love? He shouldn't have been so cold and unloving on such a romantic day.
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Japanese Women Looking For Men For Language Exchange
Why do some Japanese women only want men for language exchange? These women say explicitly that they are not looking for relationships, yet they get offended when men try to begin a relationship with them. There is absolutely zero logic in only wanting a man for language exchange. Japanese women who are only seeking to improve their English communication skills should find women, or should not complain when men try to start a relationship.
Japanese women who only want to learn English from men should go to an eikaiwa! Perhaps Japanese women who seek only men for language exchange partners fantasize about being with a foreign man, but are actually too afraid to make a commitment? Perhaps they go home and masturbate?
An email chat, I was asked, “You still think marriage is the greatest thing?”
Yes. I was married once(for seven years), still think it's great, if sex is good for both of us. Sex was never an issue when I was married because I made sure she was sexually satisfied. She was surprised that I could usually make her cum once or twice before me. I studied, so no surprise for me. It wasn't luck. Marriage is great because I prefer to give my sexual and mental attention to one woman. However, living in Japan and having a great sexual relationship difficult. One problem is distance. In America we have cars and live alone so couples can see each other often. But in Japan girls live with their parents and have to go home before the last train or parents will worry. The other problem is that many Japanese women aren't good at sex. This is mostly the fault of Japanese men because the men are sexually selfish. But Japanese women share the responsibility and should discover for themselves what satisfies them sexually. I have discovered that almost every Japanese woman who has experienced cumming(orgasm) wants the feeling again, it's like a drug. Good sex for a women reduces stress. But for a sexual non-Japanese man, the living arrangements, transportation and the lack of sexual experience almost forces men to have several women.
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Chocolate, Shopping, & Sex
Few women want to get fat and waste money. But millions of women do it all the time by eating chocolate and getting fat, and by buying clothes that they then get tired of. It's like an addiction, with the end result being an emotional emptiness that has to be satisfied again to the detriment of one's waistline or pocketbook. Curiously enough, it seems that women who are sexually satisfied don't go on chocolate eating binges and shopping sprees as often. Keep in mind that sexual satisfaction and having sex aren't equal.
Japanese women who only date foreigners
Japanese women who say they ONLY date foreign men are foolish and in many instances are the women that many Japanese men wouldn't date themselves.
The Candy Store that Japan Built: Japanese Women, White Men, & Sex
There is a segment of the Japanese female population that thinks having sex with a white man is cool. Many of them, some married, aren't interested in a relationship, only sex, and that's it. For these women having sex is much like going to one of the famous American theme parks with locations in Japan and enjoying a roller coaster ride and cotton candy. She just wants to have the experience or the thrill of having sex with a Caucasian man, and lock it away in her memory. For the most part these women are educated, work respectable jobs and fit into Japan's homogeneous society.
Why Do Foreign Men Need So Many Women?
Japanese women who have never dated a foreign man seem shocked when they consider how many girlfriends (lovers) a foreign man has at one time. Of course, Japanese women who've dated three or more foreign men feel that three or more girlfriends at one time is many. In either case, Japanese women appear to be more accepting of that possibility than Western women. The question almost all of them ask is, "Why so many?"
