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Tag Archives: Honesty

Dating Japanese women with “a past…”

So you have met Ms. Right. You were both at a bookstore and you clumsily bumped into her – a sexy, stylish Japanese woman. Her books fell to the floor and while you were standing up after helping pick up the books, your heads bumped together. Both of you laughed. It’s been a few weeks now, you had a few great dates; you chatted, and walked through the park. You brought her flowers. She told you that none of her Japanese boyfriends had ever bought her flowers. Your first kiss was fantastic and, a rarity among Japanese women, she is open and uninhibited about sex. You were beginning to think she was “the one.”

Promises and Dating Japanese women


It’s funny how often people make little promises to each other during the course of the day – and often, people don’t keep these promises. But if you are in a relationship with a woman, she will expect you to keep some of the promises you make, even if you don’t realize you made them.  This is especially true if you are dating a Japanese woman – because Japanese culture values honesty and politeness and the keeping of promises.

Here are some of the most important promises that a man has to keep, whether he wants to or not.

Cutting Your Losses: Dating Japanese Women and Sex


The average foreign man is so enamored with the so-called beauty and polite manner of Japanese women that they fall into the trap of sexlessness before they know it.

Japan is LAST on the list of sexual frequency! There is a reason for that. The reason for which is a topic for another article.

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Are you the “wrong type” of man to date Westernized Japanese women?

After years of watching my buddies go through the dating game and watching them all leave and keep certain types of women I couldn’t help but wonder if maybe a woman should have basic rules about the type of men she will date.
 
Here is a list of things about a man that should send any reasonable woman looking for someone else.

How NOT to End a Relationship with a Japanese Woman

It’s always hard to end a relationship, even if you are the one who wants out of it. When you are a Western guy in Japan dating a Japanese woman, the complications often increase – there are cultural differences, language issues and other ways that make breaking up hard to do. However, while there are ways to break up with a Japanese woman that may make it easier for both of you, there are definitely wrong ways to end a relationship.

To Get Japanese Women, be a “Real Man,” not “Superman”

According to some friends of mine who are women, one of the most confusing things to them is why men feel they have to be some kind of superman. There are so many men out there who feel the need to be 100% in control at all times – they cannot show vulnerability, they cannot admit a mistake. Even worse, some men feel like they have to act cocky, strut around in bars and locker rooms like they’re macho studs, brag about their sexual conquests…you know the type.

Don’t Just “Get” Japanese Women – “Keep” Them

I see so many Western guys in Japan who are completely screwing up their relationships with Japanese women. You start out dating the Japanese girl of your dreams, you think everything is going fine, and then without warning she walks away from you, and most of the time you have no idea why.