Tag Archives: foreign men
Why Do Foreign Men Need So Many Women?
Japanese women who have never dated a foreign man seem shocked when they consider how many girlfriends (lovers) a foreign man has at one time. Of course, Japanese women who've dated three or more foreign men feel that three or more girlfriends at one time is many. In either case, Japanese women appear to be more accepting of that possibility than Western women. The question almost all of them ask is, "Why so many?"
Sex Isn’t a Reward for Good Behavior!
A large number of men think, "If I do this for her, she should give me (or want to have) sex!" This is an incredibly immature way to think. Sex isn't a gift or a reward for good deeds or behavior. The feeling of sexual pleasure should be mutually satisfying, and statistically in many cases it's not – for her. It's almost laughable to hear foreign men talk about the sexual times they had with their Japanese spouse before marriage, and how now sex seldom occurs. These men are shocked and angry. Haven't they realized that though many Japanese women appear sexy and attractive that they aren't nearly as sexual as Western women? The statistics are everywhere; Japanese people don't have sex as frequently as other cultures. So what happened?
Small breasted women should love themselves because..
I love you. Please don't envy women with big breasts. Don't say. "My breasts are so small And don't waste money on cosmetic surgery. The reality is that women with big breasts don't look as stylish in their clothes as women with small breasts. Also consider that everyone gets old, and as women with big breasts get old, their big breasts sag. Big breasts aren't so attractive when an older woman is naked. Big breasts as a symbol of beauty is largely promoted in Western culture, don't buy it. Cosmetic surgeons make a fortune from insecure women and men that make them feel that way. Remember, the man that loves you with big breasts now, will not love the big breasts as they begin to sag as you get older. It has been my experience that women with small breasts are more sexual and sensitive, while women with bigger breasts are less so. Bigger isn't always better!
The Slavery of the Japanese Homemaker
Can you help me…I feel like I'm your slave", she says. Words of a Japanese woman and homemaker to an American man, echoed by Japanese women to Japanese men everywhere in Japan. Whether she works outside the home or not, the Japanese woman does almost all the home-related chores, while the man, no matter what nationality, many times sits on his butt like lord and master. In all fairness, many foreign-born men do share the workload, and Japanese men are slowly coming around, but the vast majority of women still have two jobs: company and home. Among the items on her lengthy to-do list of household tasks is sex with the husband. In Japan it's stereotypically considered one of those things that's just part of a relationship, whether you're sexually satisfied or not. Because his salary enables you to buy the brand bags and shoes, puts a roof over your head and food on the table, that is if you want to get married.
Sex in such a situation is nothing more than a mechanical act. Can you imagine a man having to perform such a chore with little to no sexual satisfaction? Probably NOT! Such a situation would be tolerated quite a bit less in America. Every woman DESERVES to be pleased. So what's a Japanese woman or any woman for that matter to do?
It’s not your English! It’s your thinking!
When a misunderstanding occurs in a relationship with a foreign man a common response for Japanese women is, "Sorry for my poor English. I need to study English more." To Japanese women, your English is not poor. You are wrong. Please stop saying it! Studying English does not mean you understand the thinking of native English speakers. You probably don't. Thinking and language are different.
