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The Japanese Myth (part 1)

by Martin Shawne

 

I have been fascinated by the myths Western men have about Japanese women. We live in an age of information and yet these basic misconceptions still abound.

 

This is part 1 of a 2-part article that will address the various myths about meeting, dating, and building a relationship with Japanese women.

No Japanese Spoken Here

by Martin Shawne

 

Here’s a question:

How can you be expected to meet and date beautiful and sophisticated Japanese women without knowing any Japanese?

 

Here’s the answer:

You can’t.

 

Wait… that’s the wrong answer…

The Roppongi Scene

by Martin Shawne

Roppongi: the famous active nightclub area in Tokyo. You can find bars, nightclubs, hostess clubs, strip clubs and other types of clubs. A popular place for many foreigners.

I remember my first experience with a Japanese woman. I’m not talking about my first sexual experience. That would come later. This was my first night out experience. I did the Roppongi scene.

An Email Template for Japanese Girls

The email template below was created for a high-income professional in the translation business. His job and interests provided the foundation for the email strategy.

Selecting date locations, developing a conversation and activities strategy and fashion coordination are all part of a client consultation and coaching package.

Success with Japanese girls does not have to be difficult and time consuming.

To Japanese Men: Take the Good, Leave the Bad and the Ugly

The email below is from a Japanese woman, continuing education student, at a university in Tokyo. The question was, "Why is Japan a paradise for American men?"

Japanese men Notice the Japanese girls Foreigners Date


I have a friend who is the Japanese president of a U.K. owned men's brand. We've known each other for about six years. One day as we were having a discussion about women's changing perception of brand in Japan, he suddenly asked, "Can I ask you something? Totally on a different topic?" "Sure" I said, "What's up?" He went on to say, "Our CFO comes to Tokyo several times a year and goes to the gaijin hostess bars in Roppongi. He was here about two weeks ago and one thing I've always noticed, no matter where in the world, the Japanese women that foreign men date aren't so attractive. Most Japanese men wouldn't date them at all!"

Japanese Women Looking For Men For Language Exchange

Why do some Japanese women only want men for language exchange? These women say explicitly that they are not looking for relationships, yet they get offended when men try to begin a relationship with them. There is absolutely zero logic in only wanting a man for language exchange. Japanese women who are only seeking to improve their English communication skills should find women, or should not complain when men try to start a relationship.

Japanese women who only want to learn English from men should go to an eikaiwa! Perhaps Japanese women who seek only men for language exchange partners fantasize about being with a foreign man, but are actually too afraid to make a commitment? Perhaps they go home and masturbate?

A response to a Western man’s thinking of what Japanese women want sexually…

Some men are just stupid! Pornography is usually written by men for men (look at the credits). So, why would a man think that, "Japanese women want their partners to cum on their faces."? Just because a woman "allows" an activity doesn't mean she "enjoys" or "wants" it. It's porn! Don't think she enjoys it; she was most likely paid (most of it is acting) or coerced. Ask your girlfriend if she enjoys (or wants) cum on her face and watch what her body tells you. Look at her eyes and face when she responds; do not listen to her words. I haven't met any women that wants or enjoys cum on her face.

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Stupid Foreign Men Led By Sex!

Judging by the physical appearance and personality of many foreign men, most of those who marry Japanese women have had few sexual experiences in their native country. Once a foreign man comes to Japan, he "gets lucky" with a Japanese girl, gets "pussy whipped," gets married, and then gripes about the lack of sexual intimacy after he realizes she isn't as "interested in sex." One might wonder to what degree the Japanese woman was really intimate or interested in sex at all.

Japanese women who only date foreigners

Japanese women who say they ONLY date foreign men are foolish and in many instances are the women that many Japanese men wouldn't date themselves.