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Cutting Your Losses: Dating Japanese Women and Sex
The average foreign man is so enamored with the so-called beauty and polite manner of Japanese women that they fall into the trap of sexlessness before they know it.
Japan is LAST on the list of sexual frequency! There is a reason for that. The reason for which is a topic for another article.
In the meantime take action!
End Sexlessness with a Japanese woman
Japanese women are well known for gradually reducing the sex they have with their partners or husbands. Some couples only have sex once or twice a month! Foreign men often cry and moan about the lack of sex with the Japanese women in their lives.
Real men say, “NO!” to no-sex. They do not accept the excuses of, “I’m tired” or “I’m too busy”.
This strategy works when the following elements exist: the guy knows he is a prize worth having and the Japanese woman knows that she can be replaced easily with an equal or better ‘quality’ woman.
Just say, "NO!" to sexlessness. If the man is a prize, SUDDENLY, the Japanese girl will have time and energy. Mine did!
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The Jealousy of Great Sex
Why is it that if a woman obviously enjoys smoking, drinking or eating , it's not really that big of a deal, but if she enjoys sex everybody gasps with such a disgusting glare? How dare she enjoy sex enough to show it! Cigarette smoking can cause cancer, drinking can lead to alcoholism, and overeating to obesity and heart disease. What does too much sex lead to?
Get to know her: Ask the right questions
Everyone loves a good listener and nearly everyone knows this, so why is it that men are often poor listeners in relationships? Being a good listener seems to be less of a problem in the workplace than in the home. Listening to others is required at work to get tasks done correctly, and if something is unknown or unclear, questions are asked. That's why communication in work relationships is often better than it is in personal relationships.
Small breasted women should love themselves because..
I love you. Please don't envy women with big breasts. Don't say. "My breasts are so small And don't waste money on cosmetic surgery. The reality is that women with big breasts don't look as stylish in their clothes as women with small breasts. Also consider that everyone gets old, and as women with big breasts get old, their big breasts sag. Big breasts aren't so attractive when an older woman is naked. Big breasts as a symbol of beauty is largely promoted in Western culture, don't buy it. Cosmetic surgeons make a fortune from insecure women and men that make them feel that way. Remember, the man that loves you with big breasts now, will not love the big breasts as they begin to sag as you get older. It has been my experience that women with small breasts are more sexual and sensitive, while women with bigger breasts are less so. Bigger isn't always better!
The Secret to a good Sex life: Focus on her needs.
I'm always puzzled when Japanese men complain that they don't have enough sex. And the Japanese women complain that they really don't enjoy sex, but they have sex. For the women, having sex is similar to going to work. People work because they need money, women have sex to have a man, boyfriend or husband. Many women don't like sex, just like many women do not like their jobs, but they want money, so they work. Doing does not mean liking. Why is this so difficult for Japanese men to understand?
A simple formula for men to follow for a better love life
Be attentive to a woman outside of bed (romance)
+ Be attentive to a woman in bed(her wants, her pleasures, ask her, good technique)
- A your tendency for selfishness
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A more pleasurable love (sex) life for both of you!
Simple formula, but it takes a lot of practice, and practice is FUN!!!
My definition of romance is doing the little things like giving flowers, love notes or cards, saying, "I love you", asking, How was your day?" and giving her a massage without thinking about having sex afterward! Also, doing unexpectedly thoughtful things.
your note: means generally speaking a man doesn't know everything(sometimes nothing! ha hah ha) about a woman's body and sexual feelings. He should ask in a caring way about her wants.
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The Slavery of the Japanese Homemaker
Can you help me…I feel like I'm your slave", she says. Words of a Japanese woman and homemaker to an American man, echoed by Japanese women to Japanese men everywhere in Japan. Whether she works outside the home or not, the Japanese woman does almost all the home-related chores, while the man, no matter what nationality, many times sits on his butt like lord and master. In all fairness, many foreign-born men do share the workload, and Japanese men are slowly coming around, but the vast majority of women still have two jobs: company and home. Among the items on her lengthy to-do list of household tasks is sex with the husband. In Japan it's stereotypically considered one of those things that's just part of a relationship, whether you're sexually satisfied or not. Because his salary enables you to buy the brand bags and shoes, puts a roof over your head and food on the table, that is if you want to get married.
Sex in such a situation is nothing more than a mechanical act. Can you imagine a man having to perform such a chore with little to no sexual satisfaction? Probably NOT! Such a situation would be tolerated quite a bit less in America. Every woman DESERVES to be pleased. So what's a Japanese woman or any woman for that matter to do?
Just Because He’s Nice…
Believe it or not, you may not be the stud you think you are. The woman you're sleeping next to may be with you just because you're a good (nice) guy. She deals with the sex as a consideration for everything else. Life can still be good, and it's likely she loves you anyway, but things could be better. Remember, in all relationships there are aspects of our partner that we deal with because that's the way they are. And for women, the need to be with someone allows them to put up with sex. Maybe they don't expect or ask us to change, but it would be nice…
Just What Do (Some) Japanese Men Think of Women?
The cover of a very popular Japanese women's magazine (an an, dated 2006.5.31, No. 1513) has a nude woman lying down with one of her legs in the air and a pink Valentine heart where her vagina is. Strangely, this monthly magazine isn't considered pornographic, and it features a wide range of life-style articles.
