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Don’t let bad habits ruin your relationship

Are you dating a Japanese woman who has a terrible habit that you cannot stand? If so, you are going to have to either deal with it or learn to live with it. All relationships have little things that are not perfect and most people learn to live with these things. But maybe your Japanese girlfriend has habits that may become “make or break” for the relationship. What do you do if you’re dating someone who is perfect in so many ways, but there is one thing about them that makes you crazy?

Technology and Intimacy in Japanese Relationships

I was with a Japanese friend at a coffee shop one afternoon, and we overheard two Japanese women talking at the next table. One of them sounded really angry. I couldn’t quite understand everything she was saying, so I asked the girl I was with to translate. It turns out that the woman had recently broken up with her boyfriend because he spent more time with his cell phone than with her – even while they were on dates! His sex life was satisfied by porn – like many Japanese men, this woman’s ex-boyfriend was getting his sexual fulfillment almost exclusively from porn through manga, the Web and adult videos.

Dating Japanese Women is Like Football


For all you guys who are really into sports but don’t quite understand dating and how to pick out the right woman for you, here’s a little help. Think about dating Japanese women as if it were football. In football there are a lot of decisions to be made to manage a team properly. Just apply those rules to the Japanese women you come across when you are out. Here’s how:

How NOT to End a Relationship with a Japanese Woman

It’s always hard to end a relationship, even if you are the one who wants out of it. When you are a Western guy in Japan dating a Japanese woman, the complications often increase – there are cultural differences, language issues and other ways that make breaking up hard to do. However, while there are ways to break up with a Japanese woman that may make it easier for both of you, there are definitely wrong ways to end a relationship.