- How To Make The Moves On A Japanese Woman by: xanDer
February 4, 2012, 05:00
by Scott Robertson
I’ve heard many stories and seen many questions in forums that revolve around the same problem. A guy is dating a…
- Exploding The Myth That Japanese Women Are Easy by: xanDer
January 27, 2012, 05:00
by Scott Robertson
I often hear western men talking about how Japanese women are easy and gullible. Nothing makes my blood boil as much as…
- The Raging Sexual Monster Inside Each And Every Japanese Woman by: xanDer
January 22, 2012, 04:32
by Scott Robertson
Because Japanese women are cute, polite and very in control of their emotions, there’s a ridiculous stereotype that they&rsquo…
- Ideas For Dating Japanese Women – Take Her Shopping by: xanDer
December 22, 2011, 06:15
by Scott Robertson
Japanese women love to shop. Every single Japanese woman I’ve ever met has a huge obsession with shopping and I’m…
- The Truth About Yellow Fever And Japanese Women by: xanDer
December 15, 2011, 06:11
by Scott Robertson
Nothing drives me crazy than being told that I have “yellow fever.” Yellow fever refers to a western man who has a…
- The Japanese And Western Culture Gap – How It Effects Relationships by: xanDer
December 8, 2011, 05:52
by Scott Robertson
Intercultural relationships are challenging for everybody. When two people come from different cultures, there are always…
- Why A Japanese Woman Might Suddenly Turn Cold by: xanDer
December 1, 2011, 05:50
by Scott Robertson
I’ve got a friend who told this story. He started dating a Japanese woman and things were going well. She was warm…
- Learn about our upcoming eBook! by: xanDer
November 25, 2011, 12:06
Here it is, the eBook that you have been waiting for! In our latest eBook release, we give you the guide on how to please a woman the RIGHT way! Trust us, you…
- Tell A Japanese Woman The Words She Wants To Hear by: xanDer
November 17, 2011, 05:44
by Scott Robertson
If you know anything at all about women, you know that they love to be complimented. This is probably the case for any woman…
- For Japanese Women, Partying Is About Food by: xanDer
November 10, 2011, 05:37
When folks in the west think of the phrase “to party,” we usually imagine cocktails and wine. You don’t usually think of the little…
- Unleash The Inner Gourmet To Get The Girl by: xanDer
November 3, 2011, 05:20
by Scott Robertson
Food is really important to Japanese women. It’s a hobby, a fascination, a topic of conversation and an obsession. I…
- JSP – Using Telepathy To Communicate With A Japanese Woman by: xanDer
October 27, 2011, 05:10
by Scott Robertson
In this post, I’m going to let you in on a secret that you’d only know if you spent time in Japan – Japanese…
- Meeting Japanese Women Online by: xanDer
October 13, 2011, 04:57
by Scott Robertson
If you’ve never used online dating services, it might seem a little odd. Most guys I know pick up women at bars and…
- Karaoke – Sing Your Way Into A Japanese Woman’s Heart by: xanDer
October 6, 2011, 04:55
by Scott Robertson
By now, everybody’s heard of karaoke. It’s the biggest Japanese cultural export since Nintendo. Karaoke bars…
- Some Thoughts On How To Meet Japanese Women by: xanDer
September 29, 2011, 04:52
by Scott Robertson
Why do some guys try and try again to meet Japanese women and fail miserably each time? If you have a plan and make a few…
- Japanese Women And Western Women – Some Major Differences by: xanDer
September 22, 2011, 04:48
by Scott Robertson
Of course Japanese women who live abroad get acculturated to the country where they live, but there are some fundamental things…
- How To Make A Japanese Woman Love You – Cook For Her by: xanDer
September 15, 2011, 04:48
by Scott Robertson
I’ve come across a great tip for getting a Japanese woman to love you forever – cook for her. Even if you’re…
- How To Upgrade Your Fashion Sense To Meet Japanese Women by: xanDer
September 9, 2011, 04:08
by Scott Robertson
Is there any doubt in your mind that the Japanese are probably the most stylish people on earth? It’s true, and this…
- The Perfect Date With A Japanese Woman – The Pet Store by: xanDer
September 8, 2011, 04:35
by Scott Robertson
When I was living in the United States there was a Japanese woman I really liked but things hadn’t quite happened yet. I…
- Japanese Women – Once She Comes Over, It’s A Done Deal by: xanDer
August 18, 2011, 04:05
by Scott Robertson
In this post I just want to clarify a rumor about Japanese women that is absolutely true. I’ve heard guys say this a lot…
- The Submissive Japanese Woman – A Misleading Stereotype by: xanDer
August 8, 2011, 03:56
by Scott Robertson
Lots of guys who are interested in meeting and dating Japanese women have serous misconceptions about them. While Japanese…
- Where To Take A Japanese Woman On A Date by: xanDer
August 4, 2011, 03:52
by Scott Robertson
Once you’ve met a cool Japanese girl and gotten her contact information, where do you take it from there? She’s…
- Dating A Japanese Woman –The Concept Of “Genki” by: xanDer
July 28, 2011, 03:52
by Scott Robertson
If you’ve taken a handful of Japanese language classes or looked in a Japanese textbook, you’ve probably come across…
- The Truth About Sex With A Japanese Woman by: xanDer
July 28, 2011, 03:48
by Scott Robertson
A lot of guys have created a basic disconnect with Japanese women. These guys have only brushed the surface and not gotten…
- Interview with a Japanese wife – Japanese Woman’s Look At Sex by: xanDer
July 8, 2011, 15:22
by Martin Shawne
There are many articles about how to make that “perfect” Japanese woman your wife but there are very few articles about…
- Interview with a Japanese wife – Sex Life During Marriage by: xanDer
July 6, 2011, 08:21
by Martin Shawne
There are many articles about how to make that “perfect” Japanese woman your wife but there are very few articles about…
- Interview with a Japanese wife – Sex Life During Dating by: xanDer
June 29, 2011, 08:15
by Martin Shawne
There are many articles about how to make that “perfect” Japanese woman your wife but there are very few articles about…
- Interview with a Japanese wife – Dating by: xanDer
June 22, 2011, 08:13
by Martin Shawne
There are many articles about how to make that “perfect” Japanese woman your wife but there are very few articles about…
- Nice Guys DO NOT Finish Last – But Could by: xanDer
June 8, 2011, 23:06
by Martin Shawne
So you aren’t a tall, dark, handsome stranger that causes women to swoon every time they are in your presence. You are a short,…
- Spending Quality Time With Japanese Women by: xanDer
June 1, 2011, 22:59
by Martin Shawne
Dating Japanese women is an interesting exercise of balancing your time with her and her commitments to work, family, and her…
- What’s In A Word? by: xanDer
May 18, 2011, 22:39
by Martin Shawne
Even if you speak the same language, be it English or Japanese, communicating is always a challenge. When you both don’t…
- Fixing Bumps In The Road – An Analytical Approach by: xanDer
May 11, 2011, 22:21
by Martin Shawne
All relationships run into trouble. When dating a Japanese woman, you are constantly at odds with cultural barriers that can cause…
- Play The Odds | Putting Everything In Your Favor For Success (part 5 of 5) by: xanDer
May 4, 2011, 20:45
by Martin Shawne
I knew this British guy while I was in Japan. He had a very different outlook on relationships than I did. He wanted sex, sex, and…
- Timing Is Everything | Putting Everything In Your Favor For Success (part 4 of 5) by: xanDer
April 27, 2011, 20:42
by Martin Shawne
As the saying goes – “There’s a time and place for everything.”
For the most part, Western women…
- Dress The Part | Putting Everything In Your Favor For Success (part 2 of 5) by: xanDer
April 13, 2011, 20:36
by Martin Shawne
If you are like most men, fashion isn’t your strong suit. Western women have come to understand this and, for the most part,…
- The Art of War | Putting Everything In Your Favor For Success (part 1 of 5) by: xanDer
April 6, 2011, 20:15
by Martin Shawne
“The Art Of War” by Sun Tzu (born 500 B.C.) is full of philosophies and strategies for warfare that are still used today.…
- Common Mistakes – During A Relationship by: xanDer
March 2, 2011, 20:03
by Martin Shawne
It's very easy to write about your successes. It's much harder to write about your failures. While I was in Japan I had some…
- Common Mistakes – Pre and Early Relationships by: xanDer
February 23, 2011, 20:00
by Martin Shawne
It's very easy to write about your successes. It's much harder to write about your failures. While I have had some wonderful…
- 5 Don’ts When Meeting Japanese Women by: xanDer
February 16, 2011, 19:54
by Martin Shawne
One of the major reasons Western men fail to get a date with a Japanese woman is their lack of understanding the culture and the…
- A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Horseback Riding Trainer by: xanDer
February 9, 2011, 19:53
by Martin Shawne
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see…
- A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Eikaiwa Manager by: xanDer
February 2, 2011, 19:47
by Martin Shawne
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see…
- A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Kindergarten Teacher by: xanDer
January 26, 2011, 19:39
by Martin Shawne
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see…
- Nonverbal Seduction And Japanese Women by: xanDer
January 12, 2011, 06:25
by Scott Robertson
There are a few characteristics I’ve observed in Japanese women that make the nonverbal communication route the way to…
- A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Bowling Alley Girl by: xanDer
January 6, 2011, 13:20
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action.…
- A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Bank Teller by: xanDer
December 25, 2010, 15:10
by Martin Shawne
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the…
- A Critical Look At A Relationship – The Librarian by: xanDer
December 11, 2010, 11:11
When doing research for these articles I noticed that nowhere was a relationship dissected, from start to finish, for others to see the advice put into action.…
- The Sexual Truth About Japanese Women by: xanDer
October 30, 2010, 12:47
1. Read
2. Weep
3. Get Educated
4. Don't be a Victim
Sometimes men need to see it in the RAW
Sexual Wellbeing Survey
- Why Japanese women love “bad boys” by: xanDer
October 9, 2010, 10:01
If there is one thing that will turn a woman's head faster than a piece of chocolate, it is a bad boy. Japanese women are no different in this respect – they…
- Is there sex after marriage to a Japanese woman? by: xanDer
September 30, 2010, 17:52
This tale of woe can be heard among many of the foreign (and Japanese) men who are married to Japanese women. A sexless marriage is a sad situation to be in…
- Interracial dating and Japanese women – what to expect by: xanDer
September 24, 2010, 11:19
Many people have never had the pleasure of dating outside of their race. I suppose there are many complex reasons for this; after all, decisions about who to…
- Cyber sex and Japanese women by: xanDer
September 11, 2010, 07:48
Cyber sex is a way for Japanese women to practice their English and satisfy their sexual libido too. A lot of Japanese women are not motivated by sex in the…
- American Women by: xanDer
August 28, 2010, 11:59
Contrary to what foreign men would have you believe most Japanese girls know very little about sexual expression. Allow me to be more pointed – almost…
- A date with a Japanese woman: What's for Dessert? by: xanDer
August 27, 2010, 00:23
Women can tell a lot about a man based on what he does on the first date. Japanese women in particular will be judging you based on your sense of style,…
- Dating Japanese women with “a past…” by: xanDer
July 24, 2010, 12:43
The differences between Japanese culture and Western culture can make it challenging enough to have successful dating relationships with Japanese women.…
- An Email Template for Japanese Girls by: xanDer
July 14, 2010, 13:56
The email template below was created for a high-income professional in the translation business. His job and interests provided the foundation for the email…
- What do Japanese women want in a man? by: xanDer
July 2, 2010, 16:38
There are certain things that Japanese women want in a Western man, and many things they do not want - they've heard the stories. What is important is to know…
- How to get a Japanese woman? by: xanDer
June 10, 2010, 00:54
Why are Japanese women considered just an object that men use for sex? Am I the only man who feels this way? I do not think so. Read more to find out.
- Dating a Japanese Woman is Easy! by: xanDer
May 20, 2010, 13:37
Dating ANY woman, from ANY culture, is EASY! A man only needs to understand how women think and he will ALWAYS have a woman in his life. In some ways Japanese…
- Cutting Your Losses: Dating Japanese Women and Sex by: xanDer
May 16, 2010, 09:20
Japan is LAST on the list of sexual frequency! There is a reason for that. The reason for which is a topic for another article.
In the meantime take action!
- What do Japanese women REALLY think? by: xanDer
May 6, 2010, 22:34
One of the greatest mysteries on the planet for most men is how women think. Personally, I believe that women think a lot more than men do.
- Secrets of How to Get Japanese Women by: xanDer
April 29, 2010, 23:52
Okay guys, here it is: the best-kept secrets about Japanese women that you need to know. I’m sharing these as a public service; these are secrets that I’ve…
- If you want to meet Japanese women, don’t be a “mama’s boy” by: xanDer
April 10, 2010, 00:51
Do some men really want a woman who reminds them of their mother?
You know the type: “Mama’s boys” - the spoiled, pampered men who cannot seem to…
- Are you the “wrong type” of man to date Westernized Japanese women? by: xanDer
April 4, 2010, 18:56
After years of watching my buddies go through the dating game and watching them all leave and keep certain types of women I couldn’t help but wonder if…
- End Sexlessness with a Japanese woman by: xanDer
March 26, 2010, 01:03
Japanese women are well known for gradually reducing the sex they have with their partners or husbands. Some couples only have sex once or twice a month!…
- New “Rules of Attraction” for Dating Japanese Women by: xanDer
March 11, 2010, 16:21
The first few weeks of a new relationship are always exciting. They are filled with constantly thinking about the other person, spending a lot of time…
- To Get Japanese Women, be a “Real Man,” not “Superman” by: xanDer
February 26, 2010, 15:15
According to some friends of mine who are women, one of the most confusing things to them is why men feel they have to be some kind of superman.
- To Get Japanese Women, Let Go of Your Baggage by: xanDer
February 18, 2010, 22:39
It is time to get rid of some of the baggage that is stopping you from picking up girls and maybe having a great relationship.
- Get Japanese Women to Come to You by: xanDer
January 25, 2010, 15:27
Guys, are you tired of always having to approach Japanese women that you’re interested in? Well, why not make the Japanese women come to you? It’s true…
- To Japanese Men: Take the Good, Leave the Bad and the Ugly by: xanDer
June 29, 2008, 23:03
Read more about why Japanese women dream of dating and marrying American Men. Dating japanese girls, relationships with Japanese girls.
- Who is the Professional Sex worker? by: xanDer
June 9, 2008, 19:47
The Sex culture of Japan and how do Japanese men and women go about it. sex culture japan, Japanese culture sex,
sexual relationships Japanese.
- "Don't go to bed angry" by: xanDer
April 14, 2008, 14:58
Anger puts stress in a relationship. It's recommended to resolve any issue before going to bed. Relationship tips when you're in a Stressful Relationship.
- Japanese Women Looking For Men For Language Exchange by: xanDer
January 25, 2008, 14:58
Japanese Women who wants to learn English. Japanese women who date Americans to learn English. American dating Japanese women.
- The Jealousy of Great Sex by: xanDer
December 23, 2007, 15:37
There are more differences between women than men when it comes to pleasurable sex. A woman must know how to pleasure herself before requiring it from a man.
- A response to a Western man's thinking of what Japanese women want sexually... by: xanDer
November 12, 2007, 02:59
White Men may think differently when it comes to what Japanese women want in Sex. They don't want you to cum on her face. Japanese Women Sex Tips.
- Stupid Foreign Men Led By Sex! by: xanDer
November 12, 2007, 02:38
Once a foreign man comes to Japan, he "gets lucky" with a Japanese girl, gets "pussy whipped," gets married, and then gripes about the lack of sexual intimacy…
- An email chat, I was asked, "You still think marriage is the greatest thing?" by: xanDer
September 23, 2007, 17:30
Almost every Japanese woman who has experienced cumming(orgasm) wants the feeling again, it's like a drug. Good sex for a women reduces stress.
- Chocolate, Shopping, & Sex by: xanDer
September 11, 2007, 02:50
It seems that women who are sexually satisfied don't go on chocolate eating binges and shopping sprees as often. Find out the connection here.
- Japanese women who only date foreigners by: xanDer
August 16, 2007, 05:25
What's in the head of Japanese women who only date foreigners? Well, I think you'd be surprised. White men dating japanese women.
- The Candy Store that Japan Built: Japanese Women, White Men, & Sex by: xanDer
August 9, 2007, 22:30
There is a segment of the Japanese female population that thinks having sex with a white man is cool. Why do Japanese Girls want to have sex with White men?
- The Deception of "Good Looks" by: xanDer
June 28, 2007, 19:23
What is the real story behind good looks? Sometimes being beautiful is not everything. You may look attractive on the outside but the inside holds another story
- Why Do Foreign Men Need So Many Women? by: xanDer
June 21, 2007, 12:56
The fact may be that Japanese men like sex as much as Western men, but don't pursue sex as frequently in the form of relationships.
- Sex Isn't a Reward for Good Behavior! by: xanDer
May 28, 2007, 17:06
Sex isn't a gift or a reward for good deeds or behavior. The feeling of sexual pleasure should be mutually satisfying, and in many cases it's not - for her.
- The Secret to a good Sex life: Focus on her needs. by: xanDer
March 30, 2007, 20:27
Sex with Japanese women (or any woman for that matter) has never been my problem. What's my secret? I focus on her mental and physical needs first.
- The Slavery of the Japanese Homemaker by: xanDer
January 30, 2007, 20:53
Words of a Japanese woman and homemaker to an American man, echoed by Japanese women to Japanese men everywhere in Japan. Japanese Women treated as slaves.
- Japan: Land of the Alone(ly)? by: xanDer
December 30, 2006, 16:35
Japan is a nation with a significant number of people who are alone (lonely?). Japan's rapidly declining birthrate may be the reason for loneliness.
- Are you wasting time? Reading books written in English about Relationships by: xanDer
December 29, 2006, 03:00
Japanese women reading English books, by American authors, on how to create good relationship. Oftentimes these women have never had a foreign lover.
- Men Need to Learn They Can't Just Do It! by: xanDer
November 28, 2006, 00:23
Sad to say, most men learn about bad sex from lies that their friends tell, trial and error, and from poorly scripted porno movies.
- Proof!! Women don't Need men! by: xanDer
November 22, 2006, 19:12
Some women may have a potentially debilitating disease whereby they may have orgasms without what might be considered natural sexual stimulation.
- Just Because He's Nice... by: xanDer
October 8, 2006, 19:47
Begin with some non-sexual romantic advances. Control your sexual desire, concentrate on making her feel that she's an important part of your life emotionally.
- Romance Is Everyday Sex Isn't by: xanDer
September 16, 2006, 00:33
Simple. Ever notice how men are more romantic when they want to have sex? True romance is what you do every day. And surprisingly, these things are less…
- Just What Do (Some) Japanese Men Think of Women? by: xanDer
July 21, 2006, 04:07
It appears that many men haven't learned that pleasing a woman sexually means taking time to understand her physical AND mental needs.
- What Men ALWAYS Need to be Reminded of about Women... by: xanDer
June 2, 2006, 20:02
Men must realize that generally speaking, women don't want sex for the same reason men do. If a woman likes you, then she may want sex.
- Are American men that good? by: xanDer
May 6, 2006, 20:15
In Japan many Japanese women date American men so that they can "use or improve their English" or just have the experience of being with an American.
- Food for a Good Relationship: Bread and Butter by: xanDer
May 2, 2006, 02:36
Believe it or not, a good relationship is like bread and butter without the fat. The bread and butter are the two people in a relationship.
- Well...Who Needs Who??? by: xanDer
April 8, 2006, 13:22
Women don't need men from a purely sexual point of view, but men do need women. Don't believe me? Look at the sex industry and who they cater to - men.
- Some men are just L A Z Y!!! by: xanDer
March 20, 2006, 17:34
The average man may say he can never get enough sex; the average woman isn't likely to say that. Because the need for sex is higher in men, we have the sex…