Why do some Japanese women only want men for language exchange? These women say explicitly that they are not looking for relationships, yet they get offended when men try to begin a relationship with them. There is absolutely zero logic in only wanting a man for language exchange. Japanese women who are only seeking to improve their English communication skills should find women, or should not complain when men try to start a relationship.
Japanese women who only want to learn English from men should go to an eikaiwa! Perhaps Japanese women who seek only men for language exchange partners fantasize about being with a foreign man, but are actually too afraid to make a commitment? Perhaps they go home and masturbate? Are Japanese women so ignorant or naive about what most foreign men want? Don't call it immature, foreign men are just men and they want sex. Why ask them to change. Likewise, women are women, and men shouldn't ask women to change either. The truth is that foreign men are more sexual and more open about their sexuality and Japanese women are less sexual and less open about it. That is the reality both sides should accept it. Don't be offended when men want more than just conversation. Foreign men shouldn't be offended when Japanese women say, "No!" to their relationship advances. Don't foreign men do their homework? First, many of the Japanese women that study English are just lonely women with no real need to learn English. They just want to talk, because they feel stifled in some way. This fact can be proven easily.
The eikaiwa industry steals money from thousands of Japanese women (and Japanese men) annually. The average eikaiwa customer only speaks English when they travel, is reluctant to speak outside of a classroom, and eikaiwa regularly give away level certificates and know that the customer cannot communicate in English outside of class. Some customers just want to talk, while the instructor just listens (but not really). The instructor knows that a native speaker from another country would find the customer unable to express an opinion, and would be bored. In addition, many customers don't have the heart for real learning, and just want to be able to say "I'm studying English." In reality, they are actually doing nothing or wasting time. They may be just lonely people. The fact is eikaiwa are in the money business only that. Just like the well known internet, construction, and defense companies and architects in Japan – everybody wants to steal from the Japanese consumer. NOVA was not the only bad eikaiwa, many (perhaps most) eikaiwa are bad. Second, sex is less important to Japanese women than western women, it's just fact. That isn't saying that Japanese women don't like sex, they just like it or want it less than western women. Why are foreign men surprised? They have believed what they have seen in the porno movies and magazines – how stupid.
The sad truth is that many Japanese women think that by just opening their legs sex will be good for the man and most men(foreign men, too) think that by having a penis sex will be good for the woman both are wrong! Men and women should study the art of sexual pleasure as much as Japanese women study English The average Japanese woman speaks English to a native speaker less 3 5 times a year! That's less than she has sex, what a waste of hundreds of thousands of yen. If she's healthy, learning about sex is be more useful as she has sex more often than she speaks English. The more basic point is that foreign men and especially Japanese women should stop wasting each other's time on language exchange when their actual desires and goals are different.
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