Japanese men Notice the Japanese girls Foreigners Date
I have a friend who is the Japanese president of a U.K. owned men's brand. We've known each other for about six years. One day as we were having a discussion about women's changing perception of brand in Japan, he suddenly asked, "Can I ask you something? Totally on a different topic?" "Sure" I said, "What's up?" He went on to say, "Our CFO comes to Tokyo several times a year and goes to the gaijin hostess bars in Roppongi. He was here about two weeks ago and one thing I've always noticed, no matter where in the world, the Japanese women that foreign men date aren't so attractive. Most Japanese men wouldn't date them at all!"
Background on my friend, very stylish, met his wife as they were both employed at a woman's fashion brand. He goes on to say, "But not you, let's see the picture of your girlfriend again!" I showed the picture of my girlfriend on my cell phone. He laughs, "I'm jealous, why do you do it? She's my type, I'd go out with her." As I playfully snatch my cell phone from his hands. He goes on to say, "I'd go out with any of your girlfriends." "Yeah, I know you would, you dog! Oh, and it's, How do you do it? Not, why." as we both chuckled.
Here's what I told him, Roppongi particularly and Japan generally is a place where foreign men who have had no, little or measured success with women in their native countries can hit home runs with below average Japanese girls just because of their foreignness. And so it is with almost any Japanese woman anywhere in the world.
These men will have sex with ANY woman who will allow them to, and for many Japanese women dating a foreigner, especially a Caucasian one is a status symbol thus the ease of sex and dating for many foreign men. I don't date that kind of woman because she is in a word, "STUPID!" and I avoid Roppongi like the plague. The more intelligent and attractive Japanese girls aren't generally in Roppongi at the foreign bars and clubs.
Having a sense of fashion that matches the sensibility of the more sophisticated girl is important. Pay attention to the details, Japanese women do.
The other important aspect dating outside of the, ‘Japanese woman that a Japanese man wouldn't date’ sphere is not fitting the image of the stereotypical foreign male. What I do isn't so special, but it is deliberate. I've taken the time to study what I want in a woman and I give them what they want in a man, it's not brain surgery. The fact is that most men are just too lazy and are totally undeserving of dating anyone other than, the Japanese woman that a Japanese man wouldn't date.
