While it may be said, The way to a man's heart is through his stomach", and looking at the size of the stomach on many men one might agree, a way to a woman's is through humor. Humor doesn't mean silly, laughing-on-the-floor jokes, but the kind that brings a smile or a chuckle to the face. You've done a good job if she says Ooh, that's cute" or, I bet you think you're funny, but you're not" as she's smiling all the while. Why is this so important? First, it's a way to get women to like you. Women feel comfortable around a man that makes them smile. I can't explain why having a sense of humor works, but it does. Ladies, please forgive me, but, there's also a saying, If you can make her laugh, everything else is easy". Now guys, that's not always true, but the percentages are in your favor if you can. Second, as a man you're going to do something one day you wish you hadn't.
Okay, let's just be straight, you're gonna do something stupid! You need to build up some points, and humor is a way to do it. It's really hard to be angry with someone who can make you laugh. If you can bring to mind that little thing you do that makes her laugh, especially when you know you've gotten on her last nerve, you may just save the day! I suggest that you do it evenw hen you know thatyou're right about something but realize that being right isn't so serious. Just let it go! Both of you will be happy! Some people think they don't have a sense of humor, but I don't know anyone who hasn't smiled or laughed. The job is finding out what makes her smile and laugh!
Now, put that thinking cap on and remember the last time you did something that made that happy face! I don't mean the gift you bought her, but the cute thing you did or said or perhaps made with your hands. Some hints: your first date, an occasion when you met some friends, some romantic situation. Did you do something while making love? These situations may bring to mind some action that you didn't intend but that made her laugh, and by the way you too! Think, can you repeat that? If you can without making it looking rehearsed you've hit the jackpot. If you can't think of anything, there's still hope! Try origami! Yeah, I know you think it's for kids and but some of it is really difficult. But there are some simple things you can make and write little notes in them. Your lady will know you took the time to do something with her in mind. And, she gets to smile as she unfolds it with your note or just keeps it in her purse.
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