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Who is Xander?

I am an American guy who currently resides in Tokyo, Japan having taught a course on relationships at a University in central Tokyo. And I’m a Personal Relationship Consultant/Coach who helps my clients improve their success with dating Japanese women.

You’ve seen the movie Hitch with Will Smith? Well consider me the “Hitch” for Japanese women (this is NOT an endorsement by the actor or movie company).
 
If you want to…
 
• Meet Japanese women  
• Find out how to effectively introduce yourself to Japanese women
• Develop your abilities not only to “get the girl” but also to “keep the girl”
• Cultivate social skills that will serve you well in dating and in life
 …then hire Xander to be your personal relationship consultant.
 

FAQs

 
Q: If I hire a personal relationship consultant to help me meet women, does that mean there’s something “wrong” with me?
 
A: No. There’s nothing wrong wanting to improve the way you present yourself and increase your success with relationships. (Also, I choose my clients carefully and I don’t work with just “anyone” – I’m in the business of helping men get better at meeting Japanese women.)
 
Q: Why should I hire someone to help me meet Japanese women? Can’t I figure this out on my own?
 
A: My advice and coaching will help you get from point A to point B much faster and less expensively than you would on your own. Learning from years of experience and in-depth understanding of Japanese culture, you will be able to meet women and feel confident in your relationships – without getting slowed down by avoidable mistakes.
 
Q: I’m a good-looking guy and I’ve had a lot of success meeting women back home – why would I need a consultant to help me meet Japanese women?
 
A: Japanese women are VERY different. There are literally mountains of data that prove that. The methods that you used to meet women previously won’t necessarily work with Japanese women due to cultural considerations. I’ve have lived in Japan since 2001 and know the culture, and the subtle nuances of dating Japanese women, and I can help you benefit from my knowledge and experience. Believe it or not, no matter where you are in the world the Japanese woman’s culture highly influence her actions.
 

The Ultimate Coaching package for Dating Japanese women

 

In 30-days I will help you efficiently cultivate the online/offline field to its maximum yield. I will show you how to create custom templates so that approaching Japanese women in person and contacting and responding to email is reduced to simply cutting and pasting. Keeping in mind that the only absolute is that there are no absolutes with Japanese women, the RRC&P[Read Respond (not always answer) Cut & Paste] system reduces the need to create responses all the time, and leads girls along the path that you select – straight to your first date.

The added bonus is that you can use these same or slightly modified templates to simplify and increase your interactions with girls you meet in person in your daily life.

During the span of 30 days, I will:

* give the details on my very own date course
* demonstrate case studies of success
* instill in you the basics of powerful online/offline communication
* teach approaches on style, both traditional and modern-urban, and perhaps help you do some online shopping
* give tips on how to shoot some awesome photos of the newer, sexier you that you can use in your profile and to send to girls
* help modify your approach, coach you on communication and closing strategies, and help you locate date venues that will make moving from the venue to the bedroom a natural course of events

Throughout the 30 days I will also provide 24-hour turnaround on custom template refinement and give you online support.

 

Weekend 1: (Saturday or Sunday) – Creating your Game-plan

Basics of Date Venue/Residence proximity dynamics, online & cell phone email templates: the elements, the why and the what. Template creation – basics and online page setup
During the week – Refining your strategy
Personal email counseling with guaranteed 24-hour turnaround

Weekend 2: (Saturday or Sunday) – Personal Counseling

The Agenda: date venue scouting, closing techniques, online page & template and tweaks

During the week: Get to work

Weekend 3: (Saturday or Sunday) – Fashion & Image

You’ll dress as you would for a date, and I will evaluate you, work on a style plan that suits your budget, suggest styles that will suit you, stores where you can shop and, if time permits, even take you shopping online. Then you will get pointers on taking photos.

Weekend 4 (Saturday or Sunday) – Wrapping It All Up

Consultation, Wrap-up & Planning for Your Future online/offline Success

Tailored to your dating situation – 30 days: only $1497.00 includes one-on-one consulting via video conferencing, chat, e-mail, or in person when possible. $1497.00 is a very reasonable investment, considering that you have probably "invested" more than that in time, night club entrance charges, drinks, lunches, dinners, movies, walks in the park, and other entertainment and gone home alone.

Ask yourself, "Wouldn’t it be great to get a return on my future investment of time and money?" Then let’s talk!


 

 

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