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by Martin Shawne
Roppongi: the famous active nightclub area in Tokyo. You can find bars, nightclubs, hostess clubs, strip clubs and other types of clubs. A popular place for many foreigners.
I remember my first experience with a Japanese woman. I’m not talking about my first sexual experience. That would come later. This was my first night [...]
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The Roppongi Scene
Posted by admin on August 14th, 2010
Posted in Japanese Culture, Makes You Wonder 
Tags: American men, foreign men, Pick-up Artist PUA, Roppongi 
0Marriage in Japan
Posted by xanDer on June 26th, 2010
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I’ve been reading a lot lately about the Japanese birth rate. Japan has one of the lowest birth rates in the world, and the population is aging rapidly – Japan’s population is actually shrinking as fewer babies are born to replace the elderly people who die. The Japanese government is concerned about the low birth [...]
Posted in Japanese Culture, Japanese girls think..., Makes You Wonder, Relationships Tags: Marriage Comments OffJapanese men Notice the Japanese girls Foreigners Date
Posted by xanDer on March 27th, 2008
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I have a friend who is the Japanese president of a U.K. owned men's brand. We've known each other for about six years. One day as we were having a discussion about women's changing perception of brand in Japan, he suddenly asked, "Can I ask you something? Totally on a different topic?" "Sure" I said, [...]
Posted in American men, Japanese Culture, Makes You Wonder Tags: American men, foreign men, Japanese men, Pick-up Artist PUA, Roppongi 0Japanese Women Looking For Men For Language Exchange
Posted by xanDer on January 25th, 2008
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Why do some Japanese women only want men for language exchange? These women say explicitly that they are not looking for relationships, yet they get offended when men try to begin a relationship with them. There is absolutely zero logic in only wanting a man for language exchange. Japanese women who are only seeking to [...]
The Candy Store that Japan Built: Japanese Women, White Men, & Sex
Posted by xanDer on August 9th, 2007
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There is a segment of the Japanese female population that thinks having sex with a white man is cool. Many of them, some married, aren't interested in a relationship, only sex, and that's it. For these women having sex is much like going to one of the famous American theme parks with locations in Japan [...]
On being a feminist in Tokyo
Posted by xanDer on October 13th, 2006
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By definition, feminist: a person who supports the belief that women should have the same rights and opportunities as men. Well I guess I am, but for some reason when a Japanese man says that I'm a feminist, I want to say, "I'm not a feminist, I'm just using common sense!"
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Shy people are selfish people
Posted by xanDer on August 26th, 2006
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Why do I say that?! Think about it shy people are usually very worried or concerned about what other people think about them. But, generally speaking the other people are too busy thinking about themselves, their own wants and needs and don''t think so deeply about the people around them. So, shy people shouldn't worry [...]
Just What Do (Some) Japanese Men Think of Women?
Posted by xanDer on July 21st, 2006
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The cover of a very popular Japanese women's magazine (an an, dated 2006.5.31, No. 1513) has a nude woman lying down with one of her legs in the air and a pink Valentine heart where her vagina is. Strangely, this monthly magazine isn't considered pornographic, and it features a wide range of life-style articles.
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A Quest for respect?
Posted by xanDer on June 13th, 2006
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An observation: more Japanese women seem to travel abroad to study English than Japanese men. When asked "Why?", Japanese women answer, "I want to talk to many cultures" or "I want to work in a foreign company." Many of the women do not have business degrees and come back to Japan only to earn 200000 [...]
Are American men that good?
Posted by xanDer on May 6th, 2006
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Please note that the next two statements ARE NOT the opinions of the author and owner of this site but have been expressed to him on several occasions by American men and Japanese women. 1) Many American men think Japanese women are their sex toys to be used and discarded at will. 2) In Japan [...]
