Author

Ansel Simpson

So, who’s Ansel? Just an average American guy. I’m over 30, have a degree in Business Administration and of all things, I live in Japan. My experience with women, more than 100 less than two hundred.

This site is for those who want to learn how to please and romance a Japanese girl and to understand how to improve relationships with all women.

For Japan based readers please contact me for fee based consultation(100% refund) on improving your general pick up and relationship life style with Japanese girls and women. Though one may obtain tips on picking up Japanese girls reading the articles and posts, pick-up requires a different skill set. Individuals should contact me for getting a grasp of the general principles of pick up and minimizing their unique challenges and developing their unique skills.

Admittedly there is a lot of information available on pick up, but as in any area of life, business or personal, the fastest improvement occurs in having a coach that makes you accountable to change.

Consider what you’ve invested in reading books, transportation, drinks, dinners, club charges and dry cleaning, hundreds to thousands of dollars, right? Isn’t it time you get a real return on your investment?

And if you absolutely just can’t bring yourself to talk to the girl of your dreams, I’ll put you in a position to be successful.

Readers in other locations please contact me for consultation options.

There are many aspects of how to pick up Japanese girls that are different from other women. Approaching a Japanese woman is more of an indirect process than that of women from other cultures. However, it’s generally accepted that foreign men tend to be more direct than Japanese men. The questions “How to approach a Japanese girl?” or “How to pick up a Japanese girl?” depend on the situation, but, what seems to work best is asking a question about the surroundings in which you are both located or being interested in what she is doing. Believe or not, a compliment works wonders as Japanese girls are unaccustomed to receiving them.

Language is an important factor in picking up Japanese girls. Though Japanese people study English for a minimum of five years they have very little idea of how native English speakers think. That being the case, picking up, approaching and dating a Japanese girl can have its challenging, humorous and comical moments. The average Japanese girl has a very good understanding of English but foreign men must learn what and how to say it. Which means it’s the man’s job to learn how to think like a Japanese person and express it in English when picking up and dating a Japanese girl.

Depending on one’s physical location, “How to date a Japanese girl” from a “What are we going to do tonight?” viewpoint can become a real question of logistics. Japan generally, and big cities like Tokyo specifically are train oriented. Activities and entertainment are centered around train stations and the trains stop running around 1:00am.

On a sexual note, sadly, many Japanese girls tolerate less satisfaction in their sexual relationships than foreign women. The Japanese girl’s expectation of sex is somewhat different as many Japanese women consider sex as ‘part of the job’ of having a boyfriend or husband. For many men this may be a relief as many Japanese girls don’t openly expect to be pleased sexually.

I wrote the guidebook because more than a few women have told me that their past lovers weren’t like me. I don’t consider myself good looking but I don’t break any mirrors either. I’m not all that special but I do try to create an atmosphere where a woman doesn’t feel pushed, rushed or used. The key I think is being a careful listener; that is with ears, eyes, intuition, and a great sense of touch.

This is a guidebook, short, and easy to read. It isn’t a sex manual! And why not? Because guys don’t really read them. I’m not a fan of sex manuals because they are long and boring. But, men do need guidance; most men think they instinctively know how to satisfy a woman. Reality check guys… it’s not instinct, you’ve got to please her from her point of view not yours. Just a reminder, just because you have a penis and had an orgasm doesn’t mean she’s fulfilled.

The techniques in the guidebook are simple, but the practice takes a lifetime.