Xander is the best confidant you’ll ever have. He is an American guy who currently resides in Tokyo, Japan teaching a course on relationships at a University in central Tokyo. He is a Personal Relationship Consultant/Coach who helps his clients improve their success with dating women in Japan.
You’ve seen the movie Hitch with Will Smith? Xander is the “Hitch” for Japanese women (this is NOT an endorsement by the actor or movie company).
If you want to…
• Meet Japanese women
• Find out how to effectively introduce yourself to Japanese women
• Develop your abilities not only to “get the girl” but also to “keep the girl”
• Cultivate social skills that will serve you well in dating and in life
…then hire Xander to be your personal relationship consultant.
FAQs
Q: If I hire a personal relationship consultant to help me meet women, does that mean there’s something “wrong” with me?
A: No. There’s nothing wrong wanting to improve the way you present yourself and increase your success with relationships. (And also, Xander chooses his clients carefully and he doesn’t work with just “anyone” – he’s in the business of helping men get better at meeting women.)
Q: Why should I hire someone to help me meet Japanese women? Can’t I figure this out on my own?
A: Xander’s advice and coaching will help you get from point A to point B much faster and less expensively than you would on your own. By learning from his years of experience and in-depth understanding of Japanese culture, you will be able to meet women and feel confident in your relationships – without getting slowed down by avoidable mistakes.
Q: I’m a good-looking guy and I’ve had a lot of success meeting women back home – why would I need a consultant to help me meet Japanese women?
A: Japanese women are different. The methods that you used to meet women previously won’t necessarily work with Japanese women due to cultural considerations. Xander has lived in Japan since 2001 and knows the culture, and the subtle nuances of dating Japanese women, and he can help you benefit from his knowledge and experience.
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I’ve often been asked, “Why the name 1001Kisses?” Actually the concept started when I was just out of high school. I was still a virgin at 18 and my first sexual encounter was with a woman who was 20 or 21. She had gone to the same high school as I did and much to my surprise had a crush on me.
I still remember having sex in my mother's yellow Opel Cadet station wagon. It was nighttime in front of the girl’s house and I was giving her cunnilingus in the backseat of the station wagon. She was screaming and shaking and asked me. “Where did you learn that?!” I laughed and told her that I was a virgin and she was the first. She didn't believe me. And that's where 1001 Kisses came from.
My goal when having sex with a woman is quite a bit different from most men. A good sexual relationship comes from a woman looking forward to satisfaction, the easiest way to do that is with a man's tongue, not his penis. I'd read a lot of books on sex in my last year of high school. A lot of guys talked about their sexual conquests in the gym locker room and when asked about my ‘lay record’ they laughed when I said, “I’m a virgin”. However, somehow I knew many of the guys stories were just lies.
My high school profile was a little odd. I was somewhat of a bookworm, graduated in the top 10% of my class, voted the second best dressed guy in school, the best wrestler in my weight class, and was known to have a bad temper, but I was painfully shy.
After graduating from high school my love life changed almost overnight when I became a dance promoter entrpreneur. I wanted to make money and shy people don't make money so I would approach girls to hand out fliers to come to my dances-shows. Soon after that women were around me all the time and I would often get stopped in the street as I was known for giving the best parties in the city. The cutest Catholic schools came to my parties. So, I was like a kid in a candy store.
Then I moved to Tokyo, still a kid, different candy store.
One of the most memorable comments a woman in Tokyo has ever said to me is, "When I think about you… my body feels like Indonesia!" Must be something to the art of 1001 Kisses.
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